Styles Science Lab- The 3 A's To Overcoming Narcissism and Deep Seated Trauma
In Styles studies he discovered that trauma impacts the mind and the brain. Trauma can have lasting effects on a person's spiritual, mental and emotional well-being. Trauma that is suppressed can impact how a person perceives life, how they handle life and how they handle making decisions.
Those who deal with supressed trauma often become what psychologists call narcissists. Narcissism has various degrees to it. However, narcissism is harmful on some level both to the person who suffers from it and those that are targeted by a narcissist.
Narcissism is curable. However, curing narcissism requires deep mental and emotional healing and spiritual deliverance from trauma and the spirit of narcissism. Before a person can be delivered thoroughly from narcissism, they must:
.Acknowledge they have trauma.
.Admit they have trauma.
.Ask for help to overcome their trauma.
It is difficult to help a person suffering with deeply rooted trauma, when they are in denial about their condition OR excuse their behavior. Denial pushes a person suffering with deep seated trauma further into their misconduct and excuses. Denial is utilized as a shield or mask to hide away or avoid what lies beneath the surface.
Styles further discovered that everyone feels negative emotions and thoughts from time to time. However, to deal with negative emotions and thoughts that linger too long or become a habit of existence is a clear sign that there is something wrong. Narcissism and trauma that becomes a habit of existence is scientifically diagnosed as a mental and emotional disorder or illness.
Narcissism and trauma is an inward battle way before it becomes an external manifestation that something is wrong. Narcissism and suppressed trauma is a lingering battle of the mind and emotions. Narcissists demand or manipulate their way into positions of power, because that is their way of maintaining control.
A narcissist or a person suffering from deep seated trauma demand or manipulate their way into positions of power, because they cannot control the war within themselves. The war within themselves makes them feel imbalanced and out of control. So, they fight to gain and keep control of the people, places and things around them to balance out the imbalance they feel.
When dealing with a narcissist or a person suffering with deep seated trauma, it is important to pray and prayerful interact with them. Anything said or done or not said or done can set them off.👀 Avoid altercations with them. Limit your interactions with them and your conversations. Keep it short, sweet and to the point. In others words, be brief.
Also, be very mindful that you are not the root of their trauma, drama, rage or pain. Narcissists and those suffering with trauma will blame you for their misfortunes and their spiritual, mental and emotional malfunctions, but there is a deeper cause. You don't even have to do anything directly to a narcissists to set them off. If you are in their peripheral and they feel threatened by your achievements, influence, or that you are not giving them the attention they want that, too, can set them off into paranoia, a panic or an attack mode.
Styles discovered that narcissists mingle with narcissists to feel inclusion. However, they hang with non-narcissistic people when they want to feel powerful and in control. However, a person who is not narcissistic but dealing with deep seated trauma can either fall prey to a narcissist or isolate themselves from being in contact with people all together. There is a cure, but those who suffer from narcissism and deep seated trauma must acknowledge their trauma, admit their trauma and ask for help to overcome their trauma.
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