BE HONEST, BE TRUE, BE YOU/ Rashea@LLO2 Academy
There is nothing more hurtful in a relationship than dishonesty. Lies hurt more than we think the truth will and does. Just be honest. Tell the truth.
Your soulmate deserves the truth. They deserve to know what could be painful when heard elsewhere. It is best for them to hear it directly from you than from others.
Clear the air and your conscious. Your conscience will bother your conscious until you do tell them the honest to God truth. The Bible is clear... The truth sets us free. The truth liberates us from guilt, trouble, pain, stress, fear, worry, frustration, anger and/or sadness.
What are you withholding or holding onto that you need to let go of? Be honest with God and yourself and resolve whatever it is. Resolve it, dissolve it, and let it go.
Being honest with your partner or spouse IS being honest with yourself, because they ARE apart of you more than you know or feel they are. When you are hurt, sad or upset they feel that. It is spiritual. It is beyond just a soul tie. It is the divine purpose of God and God's spirit that connects your personalities together and make you one in spirit, soul and in body.
Tell them how you feel first before you go blurting it out to the world of social media, your family or your friends. When you say hurtful things to others about your spouse or partner or things that should be kept between you two, it can change how people view them and you. Seek help from a neutral mediator that can see both sides and work with you both through your circumstances together.
I cannot say it enough. It is important that you and your partner or spouse are friends as well as being in a serious relationship. When you are friends the issue may be uncomfortable to confront but easier to bear under and get through, because good friends listen not just hear you.
Take the time to make each other laugh. Be honest and take serious the matter at hand, but find a way to laugh or embrace the moment of honesty warmly. Whatever is said... Forgive quickly and work through the situation or circumstances.
If your spouse or partner is opening up about their past... Don't get upset at them.😂 I am so serious. These matters happened before you entered the picture.🙃🤦♀️
However, if people from the past are trying to invade your privacy and interrupt your relationship by all means speak up. Lay down some guidelines to maintain a healthy connection between you both. People from the past have no right to interrupt what is now.
Build a healthy bond and healthy boundaries. Whatever is going on in your life should at some level involve your spouse or partner. No secrets.
If you have to sneak around or talk in code to someone around your soulmate, then you should not be doing it or saying it. I do believe everyone deserves privacy, but if you have nothing to hide, then you should not have a problem with your spouse or partner having access to you and your devices. Start off healthy and develop healthy patterns together within your relationship.
No. Not everyone should have access to you, but I do believe your spouse or partner should. They are your accountability and your just in case of an emergency contact. Life happens, and they need to know what is going on with you at all times. Get them involved and keep them involved. Just be honest. Just be true. Just be you.
Rashea@LLO2
