Develop You Own Blueprint/Rashea@LLO2 Academy
Develop your own blueprint. No two couples are the same. Therefore, your relationship and how you both adapt to each other and navigate through challenges will not look the same either.
Embrace your differences. Embrace the beautiful culture and experiences that you both bring to the relationship that make you both wiser, stronger and more apt to leaning on each other and leading and following one another in trust and confidence.
You don't have to be like everyone else. Be authentic. Be yourselves. Be one unit. Together.
Communicate regularly. And really listen. Be present in the moment. Your imperfections are perfected through regular communication, honesty and understanding over time.
Iron sharpens iron. Make each other better. Grow up together.
When facing challenges, challenges are a time to come together and buff out the rough edges not turn on one another. Playing the blame game does not help anyone. Don't point the finger, because sometimes the problem or challenges are beyond you and neither of your fault.
Just be a helping hand. And in love and patience, offer to help. When one is down, the other is on site to pull the other up.
Your spouse or partner needs the you that is true to God, true to themselves and true to you. Be your most authentic self. Be apart of the blueprint not the problem.
Why do people develop blueprints? Blueprints give an accurate vision to the now, the perfecting of the vision and the finished product. Blueprints are the future. Blueprints are the reality before the reality.
Discuss. Plan. Prepare. Establish. Build.
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