INDIVIDUALITY/Rashea@LLO2 Academy
Become a better soulmate because of knowing who you are as a person. Being one with your spouse never implies that you lose you identity. Your individuality cohesively makes your relationship better and stronger.
Each of you has strengths and weaknesses. Each of you has preferences. Each of you has a distinct personality.
Who you are as a person should in some way make you both better, stronger, wiser, more loving and more intentional to fulfill your purpose and to do life together.
Throughout my time in ministry as a pastor and leader, I have seen people lose their identity within the relationship.👀 Doing this made them robotic, resentful, sad or frustrated. Don't lose yourself trying to be or appease someone else.
This often happens if one spouse or partner is more dominating than the other OR if one spouse or partner is insecure. If you do not know your worth, you will not be able to recognize it when someone points it out or you will have others devaluing your worth.👀
Let God show you and tell you who and what you are and who and what you are to be to your spouse or partner. When you know your worth your will walk securely along side of you spouse or partner and not arrogantly ahead of them or timidly behind them. Everyday won't be high tides and surf. Some days you both will just drift at sea waiting for the waves to come.😂 That's truth and that's life, but know that going out there to the water was at least worth a try AND you did it together.🤣. NOW THATS TEAM WORK.
