LISTENING, LEARNING, LOVING/Rashea@LLO2 Academy
Love to listen. Listen to learn. You don't know everything, and you were not made to know everything.🤭
You are a whole half of a person. What do I mean by that? You are the half that makes your partner or spouse whole.
And the two whole people will become one whole in spirit, soul and body. You have attributes, skills and gifts about you that make up for whatever your soulmate is lacking and visa versa. You can be skilled at something, but what your partner or spouse has or how they approach something is better, therefore making you better as you listen, learn and love them.
You learn in part based on your personal convictions, belief systems formed over the course of time and your experiences. Learning to lean in and to listen will enable you to reach new heights of confidence, togetherness and good success. Learning to lean in and to listen will empower you to learn new concepts, information, revelation and skills. It produces the response of, "I never looked at it that way. That makes sense." It makes the light bulb in your mind come on.
Your energy, your knowledge and your gifts and talents infuse with theirs, through conversation, impartation and adaptability.
We learn from each others deamonor, gifts, skills, traits, experiences and personality. We learn through communication, body language and adaption. Your ability to adapt to your partner or spouse communicates awareness, tolerance, acceptance and unconditional love and understanding.
You may not always like how your spouse or partner does something or says something, but overtime you learn to adjust and accept their way, because that's them. You are becoming a distinctive whole. Some things about your spouse or partner will change and some things will...well... not ever change,🤣 because it's just there way.
People say that man won't change and cannot change. That's not true at all. Women or the female species are more prone to change, but men and males do change. They might change at a different pace, but they do change and can improve just like a woman or a female can.
Give that man some time. Get the right woman or female in his life. Get God involved. He will change.😂 He will.🤭
My dad for example is in his 70's now, and I have seen God and time soften his harden heart and make him more acceptable and adaptable to change, to laughter and learning how to relax, enjoying God, life and his wife's presence in his latter years of life. So, man do change and can change.
Women can be stubborn too.👀😂. They can and they are. I can say that, because I am a woman and have seen it time and time again.🤣. Lord Jesus.🤦♀️Women can be something else and vocal with their unwillingness to change.🙃🙆♀️😂.
Somebody get me the blessed oil.🙌👀 DELIVERANCE IS NECESSARY.🤣 Sometimes, being in the presence of a stubborn man or woman will make you want to walk the other way just to avoid their mood.👀😂 I'm not lying. It's the truth.🤦♀️💆♀️ JESUS take the wheel.🙏🤣
We all have the ability and resources to love, listen and to learn. Sometimes, our approach and tone can either aid in change or hinder it. Both men and women (younger, mid age or older), males and females want to be heard and loved. That requires learning yourself and your partner or spouse. That is a lifelong journey.
When you take the time to listen, learn and love them, you become a better person, soulmate, listener and friend in the process. Time brings about a good change. Listen, learn and love with the motivation to understand.
Rashea@LLO2
